STANDARDS OF CONDUCT AT MEETINGS

October 1, 2006

Since the hurricanes of 2004, we have seen a trend of more 
owners becoming disruptive at Board of Directors and 
Members Meetings. Association owners are frustrated and 
stressed at what has happened to their lives over the last 
few years in South Florida. In addition, the aftermath of 
the hurricanes has caused additional stress due to 
increases in assessments, higher insurance costs and ever 
increasing and expensive special assessments to offset 
non-planned expenses and emergencies. In addition to the 
increased Association burden is also the burden of the 
residents having increased personal expenses as well, also 
caused by the hurricanes. 
 
Today, owners and residents are frustrated and angry at 
these circumstances and they are taking it out on the Board 
of Directors and management personnel with more frequency 
at Association meetings. This is not right or fair to 
those assembled, as in most circumstances the Board of 
Directors do not control the weather, insurance costs or 
other operating costs. The Board of Directors are handling 
these issues and many other issues as well as they can and 
they need all of the help that they can get from the 
community to combat these challenges. At an Association 
meeting, the Board of Directors does not need a resident 
who is disruptive and disharmony is not part of the 
solution. In these difficult times there is too much to be 
accomplished and everyone should be working together rather 
than causing disruption. By statute, the Board is allowed 
to make reasonable rules and regulations on the 
participation of owners and members at Board of Directors 
Meetings. This usually has to do with time and frequency 
of talking at meetings. This article expands owner 
participation at meetings with the hope of helping to make 
meetings more productive, shorter in duration, and more 
professional.  
 
To help minimize Association problems and to help to become 
more effective at their meetings, the Board should consider 
having a Standards of Conduct for all Association meetings. 
These standards would be agreed to by the Board of 
Directors and could be made official by a Board Resolution. 
The agreed upon Standards would be a part of the official 
records of the Association and should be posted along with 
the Meeting Notice and Agenda of the Meeting. Consider 
having the Standards of Conduct made into a sign that could 
be displayed on an easel at the entrance of the meeting 
room. In this manner, no one can say that they did not 
know of the policy when they come to the meeting. At least 
have the Standards copied and made available to residents 
that attend the meeting. It should be understood that 
these standards must be adhered to by everyone who attends 
the meeting.  
 
The following is a list of “suggested” Standards and they 
can be expanded or reduced, depending on the size of the 
Association and the complexity of issues at hand:  
 
No one should be allowed to speak unless they are 
recognized by the Chairperson of the Meeting. (This will 
reduce the amount of disruptions during a meeting).  
There should be a rule that allows the Chairperson to also 
make rules at the meeting. In this manner, if a situation 
were to arise that is not covered in the Standards of 
Conduct, the Chairperson could make a quick rule that could 
diffuse or solve an issue.  
No one is allowed to interrupt anyone who has the floor of 
the meeting. Interrupting helps to foster a hostile 
environment and wastes time, which make meetings last 
longer than is necessary.  
All comments should be made to the Chairperson. In this 
manner the issue is depersonalized and not directed to 
someone who may have an opposing point of view.  
All comments should be made on Agenda Items only. This 
helps to prevent meetings from getting off topic and a 
rehash of old items and topics that someone disagrees with. 
 
Any time limits that have been made must be complied with 
and adhered to by all participants. Possibly there is an 
item on the agenda that is worthy of more time or owner 
participation. If this is the case, the Chairperson should 
be able to alter the time and how it will be allocated.  
Most other times, the Board should set a 2-minute time 
limit for members to speak.  
If someone wants to speak more than once, and if this is 
permitted, then everyone should be allowed to speak first, 
prior to someone addressing the Board a second time. This 
gives as many people as possible the chance to speak at the 
meeting.  
Do not allow someone to speak more than twice on the same 
issue. If the situation or discussions change regarding 
the same subject, the Chairperson will have to have some 
discretion if someone would want to speak again on the same 
subject, but with different circumstances.  
No personal attacks should be allowed on anyone, as this 
not only allows the meeting to deteriorate but is 
unproductive and unprofessional. The Board is a group of 
volunteers who are trying to operate a “small business” and 
they should be respected. If an owner begins to personally 
attacking another member, whether on the Board or not, the 
Chairperson should nip this quick.  
No foul or threatening language should be allowed to be 
used in any meeting by anyone. If anyone is unwilling to 
be civil in their dealings at a meeting, then they should 
be asked to leave, and if it is necessary, the meeting 
should be adjourned to a later time or date.  
These Standards of Conduct will help an Association to have 
civil gatherings and more productive meetings. In the long 
run this will benefit your Association in terms of greater 
owner participation and involvement, and will ultimately 
ensure harmony.

 

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